How To Keep Your Presence When Moving In With A Girlfriend - 8 Chic But Masculine Home Decor Additions
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Discover our edit of acceptably-masculine homeware additions which will pass the partner check.
Moving in with a girlfriend is a huge step to take in a relationship. But one of the rarely-spoken-about factors of moving in with somebody is how hard it can be to imprint your personality into the humble abode in which you now both live. Maybe you’re moving into an entirely new place together, or perhaps you’re moving into her home – if its any scenario that involves bidding adieu to your bachelor pad, it’s safe to assume that the female influence will win this one.
When it comes to the home, women sure do love to buy stuff. I’s safe to say that she'll likely have more rugs, lamps, bedding options, vases, trinkets and general toot than you do. She's already got it covered. So if you want to give off any sense that you've moved in whatsoever, what you're bringing to the table has got to be worth it. A mismatched pair of bedside tables isn't going to cut it, and neither is that framed poster from that movie you like probably. Getting that feminine to masculine ratio right in a shared space partner can be tricky, but not impossible - and we've found a few pieces that fit the bill.
Our advice? Find colours that our mutually agreeable - greens are a great alternative to the navy you've always sworn by. Go for the unique and remarkable, rather than attempting too much to fit in with the existing aesthetic. Below, we've curated 10 stylish homeware additions that honestly could belong to either of you.
Soho Home
Horton Arm Chair
£1316.00
A far cry from the black pleather sofas that may have formerly resided in your bachelor pad - warmer, more elevated, and a welcome addition to any home.
JONATHAN ADLER
Vice Munchies Canister
£130.00
A designer addition that she'll certainly love to see on the coffee table is this Jonathan Adler canister. In a mustard and white hue, this fashionable piece will add a touch of masculine style to the living room while injecting some colour, too.
H&M Home
Small Wooden Side Table
£89.99
Adding some natural materials to your home will ensure you're keeping a masculine vibe around in a subtle way. This minimalist design is the perfect addition to most modern, mid century or retro homes.
HKLIVING
Cappuccino Mugs Set of 4
£39.00
When a mismatched set is acceptable. These are the ideal accompaniment to a morning cup of joe.
ARKET
Brutto A Simple Florentine Cookbook
£42.00
A coffee table book says a lot about you as a person, doesn't need to fit in with an aesthetic per se, and this one you'll genuinely be able to get some use out of for date night. Inspired by recipe's from London foodie favourite, Brutto.
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Hampton Wooden Accent Chair
£299.00
A gorgeous 1970s style chair that can sit in the corner of the living room and serve as a reading nook, or it'll feel equally at home in the corner of your study for when you're in need of some alone time.
Le Creuset
Classic Pepper Mill - Teal
£22.50
Make your mark at mealtime with a grinder that's bold enough to be an object d'art.
Ferm Living
Fold Patchwork Cushion
£59.00
Checks can easily bring a masc edge to existing floral furnishings.
M&S
Lotus Rattan Floor Lamp
£129.00
This natural textured floor lamp is the ideal addition without feeling too blokey.
LUISAVIAROMA
Vitra Chronopak clock
£479.00
Your morning wake-up has frankly never looked cooler.
Oliver Bonas
Ero Green Velvet & Tassel Drum Lamp Shade
£30.00
Green velvet for him and a little pink fringing for her.
DUNELM
Parker Rug
£229.00
Adding a monochromatic addition to your home like this rug inject a masculine edge without feeling like a dick swinging contest.
DUNELM
Seagrass Round Wall Mirror
£40.00
Everyone can get good use out of a mirror. Thanks to the seagrass around the edge, it adds a more earthy, masculine vibe without being too in your face.
ASOS
Malin+Goetz Tomato Candle 255g
£54.00
A fresh and verdant scent inspired by tomatoes on the vine, this Malin + Goetz scented candle is a crowd pleaser and a cool alternative to sweeter fragrances.